I’m definitely not wrong here. Literally everyone.

Stop it.

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      Similarly, my ringtone is the dun-Dun-DUNNN from bad mysteries, aka Professor Professorson’s ringtone from Community.

      I’ve never seen someone annoyed when mine has gone off in public. I am rarely in public though.

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        I’m not going out of my way to approach you and say your ring tone going off every 15 seconds is annoying. Engaging with strangers only to complain isn’t something I agree with doing, generally.

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          Yeah, if I got that many calls, you’d be 100% correct. I get maybe five calls a week.

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    I agree with you if you can put your phone in a pocket.

    However as a counter-point: a lot of women keep their phone in a bag where they wouldn’t necessarily feel it vibrate because women’s clothing often doesn’t even have pockets, so I can’t really say they should mute their phone notifications.

    I have no idea why chat apps default to making a sound when messages arrive and are sent when the screen is on though—that’s entirely obnoxious, no excuse for leaving that enabled

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      I totally agree. My wife is an amazing person and learned to sew. She now makes customs clothing for people including our two girls. Since they were 3 and 4 they would say “look Dad! My dress has pockets!”

      At this point 9 and 10 they no longer point it out because every thing they own has a pocket. Leggings, yeah side and back pocket. Pants, yeah an actual pocket sized for function and not one that fits a single mint. A dress, yeah a hidden pocket along the side seems. I am super happy my girls get to grow up with this small life adjustment.

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      So let’s start adding pockets to womens clothing and stop the mandatory purse plague at its core.

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    Nope, I have a different Owen Wilson ‘wow’ for each of my contacts and apps and it has (rarely) blurted put at exactly the right time during a meeting and been met with laughs.
    So I’m keeping it.

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    My phone is always in do not disturb mode and only 1 person can ring me while in do not disturb mode. All texts and other notifications are forever silenced. It helps me focus and not become dependent on my phone.

    But it doesn’t really bother me if other people’s sounds are on. Bigger things to worry about imo.

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      You had me up to this point.

      Bigger things to worry about imo.

      I speak for the entirely of Humanity when I say, this isn’t chest pump you think it is. Stop using this as some kind of blanket statement to cover all bases.

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        It’s just a phrase to express that this isn’t a big deal. You’ve got to pick and choose your battles, and to most people, this one isn’t worth fighting. You definitely don’t speak for

        The entirely of humanity

        especially in a post that you made specifically about unpopular opinions.

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          No, it’s not “just a phrase” otherwise folk wouldn’t pick up on it.

          But that’s my opinion.

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            It literally is just that. Most of us don’t give a shit enough about it to fight against it. There are bigger problems to worry about is just a fact.

            Also, are you suggesting that a literal phrase isn’t a phrase, because it’s your opinion?

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              1 guy on the internet calls you out on the absurdity of a “phrase” and you Immediately go through the mental gymnastics to defend it.

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                One guy on the Internet said “it’s just a phrase”, and you went through the mental gymnastics to defend it.

                See how that works?

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        I’m not thinking its a chest pump. I’m literally saying that i dont think it’s worth me stressing over it. It’s a phrase to express that. But go on thumping your chest or whatever you do to communicate while pompously thinking you speak for all of humanity

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          We’re aware of how beneath you this is.

          That’s what I’m impressing upon you.

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            Quit trying to speak for others. It makes you look pretentious and a fool.

            You’re not impressing anything on me, and instead are just welcoming yourself to my blocklist. Go waste someone else’s time.

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    I will never put my phone on silent it has noises for a reason, videos on the otherhand are always muted

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    I mean the whole point of a notification is to well, notify. Vibration alone isn’t always adequate. Unless it’s going off repeatedly I don’t see the issue. Some sounds are normal in public.

    Personally my phone is always on vibrate except for calls from certain people.

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    The vibration on one of my phones is so weak that I basically never feel or hear it, including when the phone is in the pocket of my leggings (so pressed against my thigh) or sitting on my wood coffee table. I can’t find an option in the settings to adjust the vibration intensity.

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    My partner is sick and could be hospitalized, I need to be reached by text. I can’t hear or feel vibrations. Sorry, notifications are staying on.

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    I do keep mine on vibrate, with no sound, but I’ve found more recently that I’ve completely missed the vibration a fair few times. Sometimes in a fanny pack, a jacket pocket, or even in my pants pocket. The sound notification is probably more reliable

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      No, I can honestly agree there, I’ve missed vibrate a few times. That’s an issue.

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    Well. It is a notification. It supposed to notify you have a notification. If i disabled the sound, i cant be notified. So it beat the purpose of having it disabled. What if i have it in my bag and i didnt notice the vibration?

    Personally, I have a low ping sound and have mine on when i put it in my bag. Though, i put it on vibrate mode when the phone is in my hand or im in the middle of long texting.

    But, i despise those loud cringe custom notification. Plus, android have new feature called notification cooldown, it minimise the haptic and sound within 10 minutes after the first notifications. It would be better if i can mute the sound after the first notification.

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    I work in a field that is essentially always on. If I am on a project I may have to stop what I am doing and go home to start working. It sucks but it pays well to cover my student loans and for my kids to be able to do the activity they want. If I miss an email from a client that needs a response I may lose the company that client. Then potentially after that my job.

    Sorry it bothers you that I got an email. My family comes first.

    Not sure what situation or event annoyed you but a broad blanket statement without consideration is just as wrong as whatever is annoying you.

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      For necessity it obviously given a pass. I think my post makes that clear. Ain’t nobody hearing updates on actual issues every 3 mins.

      This post obviously isn’t based on those situations.

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        I’m going to argue that your post does not make that clear. HOWEVER your comments to everyone and the general discussion do. You are right, and I’ll be honest I even agree with the spirit of what you are saying. Turn off the discord notifications, Snapchat, etc. Nails on a chalk board.

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    As a “young” adult it absolutely baffles me people use notifications. I already check my phone enough without them, and if I did have notifications on I’d literally get a ding every 20 mins. If I’m expecting a call sure I’ll turn them on, but apart from that it’s an alien concept to me.

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    I’m silent at work, and vibration the rest of the time. I’m totally in agreement with you.