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Cake day: July 18th, 2023

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  • I have similar reasons for non-transitioning: generally real-life considerations versus internal. I’m also about to undertake a career change, have low social support, am not the most socially fluent, am concerned about growing transphobia, don’t want the daily hassles (e.g., public change rooms).

    I feel pretty confident that non-transition is the best choice for me right now, but it isn’t by a huge margin - it’s like a 60-40 vote versus 90-10 one.

    My strategy for now is to try to to thread the needle between embracing feminine things that make me good and being able to pass as cis-enough. I’m fortunate to have a full head of hair, which I’ve grown out, and I’m working on a nice neat top bun. I love having long hair (most of the time :P)









  • Thanks :) I am sorry to hear about the discouraging social factors in your town too. I love the anecdote about the vaguely emo-looking guy.

    That was a bad choice of words by me. Symbolizes would have been more appropriate than advertises, because no can tell I’m caged if I have pants on. I have this mental preoccupation with what if an orgy spontaneously happened lol or someone saw my cage - then it’d be truly advertised. The potential for that exists, which I find really hot. Like if I’m changing in a men’s change room at the gym ;)

    I don’t have much knowledge about conveying bottomless - I need to learn more about that :P