All my nudes gone.

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    Oh so that’s what happened. Damn, It was one of the servers with ZERO political brainrot to go & just unwind.

    As for the admin issues, I saw some interesting points raised in the comments, wondering if Piefed will learn from it ?

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    Fuck! My first account was on lemmy.ee which passed away a few months ago. My second account was on lemmynsfw thinking the presence of porn would be a guarantee of its sustainability. It’s like been banned twice from Reddit.

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      Real question - how does one host a Lemmy that accepts all sorts of content without having to keep constant tabs on it?

      Like, if we did sprinkle nsfw content throughout dozens of Lemmy servers?

      I’m asking this because I hosted a pixelfed server one time, allowed thousand users, and those abuse reports became hard on my soul. Some were pretty vanilla nsfw. But some required me to forward it to 3-letter agencies in the States. And while I’m not a fan of talking to the cops, I’m also not a fan of awful shit on my server.

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        It must be monitored. You need good mods and admins keeping things clean. There’s gonna be instances where someone will upload something fucked and that risk comes with hosting such a service.

        I know Cloudflare has a built in CSAM scanning tool that requires registration to enable, but other than that, you’ll have to monitor your site.

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    I liked leaving non sexual comments in the NSFW content. Like I would comment on the room decor.

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    Who cares 🤷‍♀️

    If you want to preserve lemmy content launch your own instance and cache it yourself. If you want to control your own communities, launch your own instance and host it yourself.

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      You cannot expect to atomize your world into billions of isolated individuals without losing something. We need community, individualism will only get you so far.

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        That just isn’t how the fediverse works. It exists in the moment. If you want it to persist you need to back it up or figure out a plan. Just expecting someone to put up as server for you and leave it up forever is fantasy thinking. Doing it yourself can involve teaming up with people to launch instances or pay for service. The people who don’t pay it forward and contribute are leeches, not community members.

    • BambiDiego@lemmy.zip
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      “Good. I was too lazy to tick one box in settings while being lazy at work. Now I can be a lazy prude and put more time into this comment than it would have taken to fix the problem on my own without blasting on the internet that I’m negligent and incompetent.”

      I fixed your comment, no worries.

        • Jax@sh.itjust.worksBanned from community
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          Thing is, there are NSFW things that aren’t porn. Seems like a decent amount of them on Lemmy. I shouldn’t need to filter out all NSFW simply because there’s a shotgun blast of new porn communities every month. I ended up just blocking every one I see, simply because that’s not what I’m on Lemmy for.

          Truth be told, I won’t miss it.

            • Jax@sh.itjust.worksBanned from community
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              Dude I’m actively seeking to limit my usage of porn, respectfully go fuck yourself. I won’t miss regularly seeing Lemmy porn.

              Edit: ITT lotta people who are very sensitive about their porn going away.

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                Hey, good on you for trying to make your situation better. I hope you’re doing it for the right reasons , instead of swallowing the bullshit that they peddle to control people (being concerned about masturbating too much/intrusive fantasies VS “not jerking off will get you babes and give you superpowers”)

                However, giving up on the NSFW stuff (some of which won’t be lewd) is the price you have to pay. the NSFW thing is a social construct and courtesy , and is 95% lewd shit anyway, so you’re not exactly missing out on much.

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                  good on you for trying to make your situation better.

                  We’re talking about the person who refused to untick Show NSFW.

              • Богданова@lemmygrad.ml
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                Plenty of us are here actively trying to limit our access to those like you. I shouldn’t need to block entire communities just to avoid you. Yet here we are.

                What are you gonna do, be a hypocrite and tell me to just block you? Stop taking your allowance to be here for granted, you’re being tolerated, just as much as you’re tolerating others. That’s how the world works.

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                Don’t make your porn addiction our problem. You can disable show NSFW or block instances and/or communities. You can also switch to an instance like programming.dev which hides pornographic communities by default. You have to manually subscribe to them to see them. Tons of things you can do instead.

                • Jax@sh.itjust.worksBanned from community
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                  My porn addiction?

                  You people are crying over NSFW being gone, which according to other people here is 95% porn, so please explain which one of us is actually addicted to porn?

                  Fucking troglodytes need to get your hands out of your pants

            • Jax@sh.itjust.worksBanned from community
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              Yes I LOVE whack-a-mole, on my media feed. GOD it’s so fun.

              All I see is crying

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                Conservatives love to demand everyone else censor themselves for the comfort of conservatives.

                You don’t want an instance in your feed, you can block it.

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                  ‘Doesn’t agree with me? CONSERVATIVE’

                  Get fucked, keep your hand out of your pants.

                  Edit: unless LemmyNSFW going down was actually the result of censorship, at which point imma need you to point to the dots I need to connect.

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      Your point of view here is always wrong. You ALWAYS protect access to the NSFW content regardless of your own frequency of use, because the nut jobs always come for it first, and you’re not far after.

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    Is there porn on Lemmy too? I thought it was a reddit thing but I guess it is an internet thing.

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      I mean, this beautifully shows that this comic explicitly doesn’t apply to the fediverse. Since everything else continues to work. The fediverse as a whole remains unaffected.

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    I’m sorry everyone. It was me. I recently found out about lemmynsfw and may have overloaded the server.

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      they still have reddit, where people peddle thier OF profiles are part of thier businesses all the time, by using hordes of bots.

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        They defend it now, one piece sub had a of girl post a cosplay, mod removed it because she had of links in profile, top post was them hating on the mod saying shes just an innocent fan who happens to have an of business lmao, I got the same hate getting a girls post removed on raves and she had posts asking about were to buy fetanyl before she started posting of posts to support her addiction. They come in acting innocent, but they’ve turned themselves into a business, so even when they aren’t actively advertising they are advertising, since they are walking advertisements for their of business and think like that when approaching things.

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          New email account, a VPN or new IP, new cookies, they can’t actually ban a person.

          But screw reddit. People need to get off it.

          We need a corp BS free, free speech, public platform.